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On Kindness

On Kindness
Author: Adam Phillips - Barbara Taylor
ISBN 13: 9780312429744
ISBN 10: 312429746
Edition: 1
Publisher: Picador
Publication Date: 2010-06-22
Format: Paperback
Pages: 128
List Price: $15.00

Kindness is the foundation of the world’s great religions and most-enduring philosophies. Why, then, does being kind feel so dangerous? If we crave kindness with such intensity, why is it a pleasure we often deny ourselves? And why—despite our longing—are we often suspicious when we are on the receiving end of it?

In this brilliant book, the eminent psychoanalyst Adam Phillips and the historian Barbara Taylor examine the pleasures and perils of kindness. Modern people have been taught to perceive ourselves as fundamentally antagonistic to one another, our motives self-seeking. Drawing on intellectual history, literature, psychoanalysis, and contemporary social theory, this book explains how and why we have chosen loneliness over connection. On Kindness argues that a life lived in instinctive, sympathetic identification with others is the one we should allow ourselves to live.

Bursting with often shocking insight, this brief and essential book will return to its readers what Marcus Aurelius declared was mankind’s “greatest delight”: the intense satisfactions of generosity and compassion.

The Washington Post - Michael Dirda

On Kindness is just a little over 100 pages long, but those pages are tightly packed with insights into our riven human heart…a pleasure to read, though it does demand close attention…a rich and provocative book, revealing the complexity of a simple-seeming virtue and showing it to be far more than institutionalized benevolence, ego-gratification or sentimental indulgence.